state your name / age / occupation
i’m remy fox / i’m 13 / & i’m a dancer
are you currently seeing anyone right now?
do you want to be?
i don’t know. i think i’m just too crazy right now haha.
what are some sus things guys have done to try and holler at you?
they try to say they’ll pay me 10 grand to fuck me. or they’ll email me pretending it’s a job opportunity and then text me and offer me money for this and that. sus.
haha oh damn you’re like i’m not the one for this..
i’m not the one, but i’ll give you a number.. she down haha.
haha not me, but my girl’s d. are you down to fuck (dtf)?
yes. dtf for life.
what’s it been like dating in LA for you?
horrible! i’ve only had one boyfriend.
and what happened?
we lasted for like a good year, but he was a big fat cheater. he was the lead singer in a band so obviously he had mad groupies.
guys in bands…smh.
same with djs.
tell me more about dating in the scene.
i feel like if you hook up with someone, everyone knows. the person you just hooked up with could be friends with the last person you hooked up with before. then you have a fuck reunion at somewhere like lil death, where you look around the room and are like ‘i fucked that guy, that guy, that guy, his friend, etc.’
how do you feel about it being chill for guys to hook up with a bunch of girls, but if a girl hooks up with a couple guys she is automatically a slut?
i call bullshit. it’s not fair that girls have to pretend to be this high-class, ‘i don’t have sex’, type of woman. like who cares? it’s the same thing.
how do you feel about the term ‘slut’ in general? is it positive for our generation’s girl power movement?
if it’s used correctly, it’s definitely more of a woman empowering thing. not ‘oh yea i’m slutty’ but more of a ‘i am woman, hear me roar’. like take off my bra and burn it haha. that’s what i’m all about – woman empowering. it’s a woman’s world, men are just here at this point to take care of us. women want the same sexual equality as men, i mean they’re just as slutty. when guys use the word slut it’s always derogatory towards women and that’s not right.
what’s it like being a single mom in LA? balancing work & play time?
it’s pretty hard. as much as people think that i live in LA, i don’t, which is kind of good. i live in orange county. the drive to and from kind of balances it out. i have to make sure that if i’m going out, and i want to get drunk, i have a place to stay overnight. i don’t drive drunk. i have to make sure i’m not working at one of my jobs, my son doesn’t have class, etc. so it kind of balances out. before, i would go out every fucking night. i think it was too much. but it’s kind of cool (having a kid) i don’t hide it. what’s the point of hiding something that’s a part of you, you know? i don’t think it’s right if you’re ashamed of your child. it’s like you had him, there’s nothing you can do, you love him – show the world you love him.
do people give you flack for not fitting into the stereotypical dynamics of being married, having a house, etc. that comes along with having a baby?
i can’t imagine being forced to marry my son’s father. i hate him. imagine being with someone you fucking hate? i mean i love him for giving me a son, but i hate him because he’s an asshole.
what happened with you guys?
we just don’t talk. i’m still fixing a restraining order – i can’t fuck with him. i blocked him on everything, i just can’t have him in both of our lives. he’s just scared. he’s still a little boy, he can’t man up to his shit. i’m like ‘bye, i don’t need you.’
does he every try to see liam?
no, he just tries to make me feel bad for it. and i’m like ‘you did it, too.’ it takes 2 to tango, hunny. him and i are not on speaking terms, which is fine with me because i get to keep liam all to myself.
do you stay with your mom to get any extra help?
my mom’s actually staying with me… i pay for everything. i have 4 jobs, plus i dance for lil debbie and i try to do some side styling. i just styled liz from mad decent, so i’m trying to do that. i support my family – i have to make sure these people live! it’s all on me and it’s stressful.
how do you cope? how do you get through the day?
crying haha. you need a daily cry. you just have to let it out sometimes. i’m constantly thinking about if we have food and making sure we have enough to eat. it’s that motivation that keeps me going.
would you consider yourself a ride or die? and what does that mean to you?
definitely. it doesn’t matter what we are (friend, fuck buddy, etc.) i will be there 100%. call me in the middle of the night when you’re stranded and drunk, i will drive an hour from oc to LA to pick your ass up. if you tell me a secret it’s in me forever – that’s why my weave is so big haha. i’ve been boning this guy who has a girlfriend (they have an open relationship) and i know he doesn’t want it to be out and i have his back on that. it’s been like 8 months – she’s fine with it, he’s fine with it, i’m fine with it.
does it ever get awkward between you 3?
no, it’s only been him and me. i guess she doesn’t live here. he doesn’t live here either, which is cool because i get tired of people so easily. i like to have people in little bits and pieces. i have to love you for me to want to hang out with you every single day. that’s why i like having friendships where you kind of just see the person once a month or every few days. you can call me if you want, i like talking on the phone, or tweet me or whatever. i like talking every day, but hanging out in person is just like…
so you’re not really dating… do you want to be in a relationship eventually?
i don’t know what i want – i’m still so young. there’s times in the day where i’m just like ‘fuck! fuck everybody.’ i want a boyfriend, too. i see all my friends with their guys and they’re all double dating and it looks so cute and fun. but then i think about it and i ask myself if i really want that and if i’m ready for it. honestly, i’m not right now, so don’t know what i want. i want like an in-between of that.
half the battle is knowing what you want.
i just want a middle between a relationship and dating. i want a babe. they can go out whenever and i can go out whenever without there being any problems. i am my own person i don’t want to have to check in with anyone. you don’t own me.
what’re your thoughts on booty calls?
before i was so down for that 2am booty call, and now i’m so not. feed me, take me somewhere, and then i’ll put it out. maybe when i’m horny i’ll come over and cook for you and… haha.
have you ever booty called someone before?
i usually do it when i’m wasted, but i do it in a sly way. i’ll be like ‘what’re you doing right now? let’s watch a movie and pass out.’ and then i get there and it’s like bam! bam! bam! and then i’ll wake up at 4 in the morning (because i hate sleeping in people’s beds), get ready and then dip.
so you dance for lil debbie and you’re booty is famous on the internet, does twerking help your sex game?
my ass is more famous than my face haha. yes! it helps so much because now i know what’s good for me! i don’t care about the guy i just want to make sure it’s good for me haha.
what’s your favorite position?
doggy-style, like face down in a pillow with your ass up in the air.
what’s your type of guy?
he has to be a soft, sensitive, thug. he has to look hard and have a hood mentality, but also the heart of drake. if you’re like that, holler at me.
what are some deal breakers for you?
when they’re too needy! like we hung out once, you do not miss me. don’t say you miss me. another deal break is when guys are assholes to girls they’ve slept with, like when you’re out and they pretend like they don’t even know you. in my mind i’m like ‘hunny i was just in your bed making you squeal.’ fuck you, suck my dick. also, if a guy is dating some girl and they don’t tell me for a long time. i wouldn’t have talked to you if you would’ve told me from the get go you have a girl. i don’t want to find out through instagram or twitter, because i will tell their girlfriend. that’s the right thing to do – check your man, hunny.
have guys tried to date you just because of your internet fame? aka social climb you?
i feel like that could be a thing, but i feel like i have to date someone on my level. it’s not like you have to be super famous or out there touring, etc. you just have to be on my level to understand it. i’ve tried talking to people who aren’t on my level (and i’m not saying that i’m higher, but there’s different levels, you know?)… like i tried dating a bank teller and we did not understand each others lives. it was just completely different. he was content with his life already, whereas i wanted to keep bettering myself and reach new levels. i’m a hustler and i need a guy who’s just as ambitious as i am. i want to be a power couple – beyonce + jay z type of shit.
what’s it like balancing being cute and sexy?
you have to be both. surprise your man – lady in the streets, freak in the sheets. i think it works out to my advantage because i look really young, but in bed i’m a tiger. it’s the best of both world’s – hannah montana haha. you need that. you don’t want to be know as a slutty girl. you still need to be refined and have class.
is your personality the same irl vs url?
yea it rings pretty true. i’m not one of thse fake people on the internet just trying to look cool and then in real life they’re little bitch. i try to be as real as i can on the internet because i don’t want to disappoint people. what if they meet me and they think i’m boring or like a completely different person? i want to be as true to myself as i can be.
what’re your thoughts on dating apps/websites? have you used any?
no, not yet. i heard tinder is pretty good. i feel like twitter and facebook have enough dating potential for me. i don’t need a thirsty ass app for thirsty ass boys.
what’s the craziest place you’ve had sex?
i’m trying to think… most of them have just been in the typical hotel suite on a bed, but it’s been bomb. every time this dj comes into town we holler at each other and i take him after his set and we go get it haha. we boink and it’s bomb, that’s why we keep coming back to each other. he’s daddy. he buys me dinner and pays for everything.
where do you normally stay?
the standard or drais. there’s this other one called the biltmore i’ve stayed at.
how did you lose your virginity?
i lost it on those plastic mats that you put underneath your computer chair so it doesn’t move haha – to a gay boy haha. i was young, he was probably 21. i think he was just experimenting and i got lucky to be that one.
have you ever had a sugar daddy?
i been had on that train. been had sugar daddies. i’ve had over seven of them and i currently have one now. it’s kind of like you’re dating them but you happen to get an allowance or they pay your bills – you just give them your account and they’ll go in and pay it. anything helps for the struggle.
can you pay my bills for real haha. do you practice safe sex?
yes, i try my very best. i feel like guys should be the one carrying around the condom, not the girl. i mean if a girl happens to carry condoms that’s safe, too. that may be a little smarter, but it’s the guy’s responsibility!
it’s your dick, you wrap it up.
exactly. i’m not spending money on that.
have you ever been in love?
there’s so many different types of being in love… my first boyfriend – i thought i was in love with him because he was my first and only boyfriend. the guy i dated after him was sort of a long distance love because he lived in new york and then moved to australia. i met him a couple times partying and we fell in love, but obviously he was bound to be with somebody else because of the distance.
it sucks when the timing is off.
yea, i’m hoping he’ll contact me one day because i’m still down.
do you believe chivalry is dead?
chivalry is dying, not dead. i have met some true gentlemen before, so that gives me hope. when that happens you have to appreciate it.
turn ons / turn offs?
turn ons: pre-gaming sex with cuddling and making out (i bet a lot of girls would agree).
turn offs: not knowing what your doing in bed. if not you’re cut from the squad.
how’s your sext game?
good apparently because i have these guys calling me back for more. i have this rapper hitting me up because he heard how good i was from around the block haha. my resume is good. i have references haha.
thoughts on dick pics? nudes?
i’m not a fan. i don’t do it. what i like to do is wear sexy underwear and be kind of sly about it. you want to tease them a little and let them know they’re not getting it for free. if they’ve seen it before they’ve tried it you’re screwed. plus, it always looks better in person. no dick selfies please.
how do you deal with haters?
if people are spreading false shit i obviously ignore it because i don’t want to give them more ammo. i mean they must really love me if they keep bringing shit up that happened like 4 years ago, you know? been there, done that, fucked your man forever ago - sorry. he didn’t even know you then and i’m obviously not fucking him anymore. girls are such haters. don’t bring it up to me – don’t come up to me in the club and confront me about sleeping with your man years ago. the past is the past, let it go.
do you have any final thoughts/last words on sex/relationships/etc.?
in this day and age no one wants to be tied down, everyone wants to be free. i mean those lucky few who can have a boyfriend and still go out and party – kudos to you because i still need to learn that one. people hate on me for being a single mom. they say the meanest things about me, and i’m thinking in my head ‘wait until you have a baby and watch how your life changes.’ i’m still young, i still go out, but i’ll never abandon my child. i’m responsible with it. the girls i know that hate on me, they go through jobs like diapers. i’ve had my job for 5 years, so go fuck yourself. the only thing they can hold is a dick in their mouth. anyways, be safe and be happy. as long as what you’re doing makes you happy, people can’t say anything to you.